The Scarlet Letter

Now ladies, you know we all love this song….even the married ladies be singing it….oops!  But how many of ya’ll actually throw your hands up outside of this song? Who wears that single title as a badge of honor? I know I don’t.  Why is that? Why is being single like wearing The Scarlet Letter but instead of the letter A it’s a big S on your chest and you’re pretty much a leper.  How do we change this stigma?

We renew our minds….

It’s a mindset.  Society is gonna be what it’s gonna be but that doesn’t mean we have to fall in line with that thinking.  Throw your hands up!  You are not gonna be an old spinster with a thousand cats, five dogs and a singing canary.  Your husband is coming…God says it in His Word…”Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart”.  Are you delighting yourself in Him or are you sitting around singing woe is me? Serve in your local church, serve in your community, have fun, travel…don’t wait for your husband before you start living your life.  Two halves don’t make a whole – are you whole? If you met your husband today would you be ready to hit the ground running with the things God has purposed you to do as a couple?  Or would you be so busy dealing with the little stuff that you lose sight and never get to the real?  Let’s not start behind, let’s get ahead of the game.  Let’s build ourselves as singles so we can rock it as a couple.  Not saying you won’t have any problems but you won’t be dealing with problems that you should have taken care of before marriage.  So single ladies…throw your hands up!

Be Bold, Be You, Be Blessed!



“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind…” Romans 12:2 NIV

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