Pimp Slapped

Has anyone ever payed you a backhanded compliment?

A compliment like…

You are too skinny, You are too tall, You are too short, You are too smart, You are too quiet, You are too healthy, You exercise too much, Your feet are too big, etc, etc, etc…

These compliments (you’ll read later why I refer to them this way) can often catch you off guard and you say to yourself, did she really say that??? You almost have to pray to keep from returning a slap or two yourself.

In this life I have learned that people will always have an opinion….that they unfortunately always feel led to share.

You will always be too much of something to someone….

Except God! God is purposeful and intentional. He placed certain things in you and left certain things out of you to be used for His glory. He did not make a mistake.

It took me some time to get to the point where I am no longer offended by all the ‘too’s’ of the world. So continue with the criticism…continue throwing shade because we all know that we only throw shade on what’s shining. So I guess I’m shining pretty bright!

Do I dim my light as to not blind others???


I have been blessed with the confidence of knowing who I am in Christ and who he has called me to be. Criticisms are a direct reflection of the insecurities an individual has yet to resolve within themselves. Therefore, know that the very thing you are “too much” of is the very thing that God is using in you to reach your destiny.

Next time you’re pimp slapped with a back-handed compliment, turn the other cheek and say I know I am and I’m so glad. But make sure you say it in that back in the day, on the playground voice when you’re trying to defend yourself against the school bully by saying the anticlimactic…ultimate comeback of… “I know you are but what am I”.  And finish it up by sticking your tongue out…and praising God for your deliverance!

Be Bold, Be You, Be Blessed!

~Forever Trina


“You stare and stare at the obvious, but you can’t see the forest for the trees. If you’re looking for a clear example of someone on Christ’s side, why do you so quickly cut me out? Believe me, I am quite sure of my standing with Christ…..” 2 Corinthians 10:7 (The Message)



  1. Shree said:

    So is this what’s it’s called? In that case, I’ve been “pimp-slapped” quite a lot in my day! Words can cut like a sword! The goal is to have the type of sheen that even shade cannot smother and then keep it moving. #KeepShining✨

    March 4, 2016
    • ForeverTrina said:

      Girrrl….me too! And yes, the song we use to sing when we were kids, “sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me” is a lie! Words hurt! Thanks for your comment – love what you said about the sheen. Awesome! #KeepShining

      March 4, 2016
  2. Anonymous said:

    Lol….love it love it love it!! I am qualified in Jesus’ name!

    March 4, 2016
  3. Annemarie said:

    Lol….love it! I’m qualified in Jesus’ name.

    March 4, 2016
  4. Crystal said:

    Good one!!

    March 5, 2016

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